Month: May 2007

The Advantages and Disadvantages of Unique Handbags

Women love handbags and for a good reason, they carry them everywhere they go with things that are important enough to them that cannot be left behind. Handbags also make a fashion statement and enhance our look and personality and that is the reason why women like owning a unique handbag.

The main advantage of a unique handbag is the fact that you cannot run into someone who has one like you for example, the colleague in the office working right next to you, and that is something most women enjoy as they don t like being sharing a fashion accessory look such as the handbag.

Unique handbags also have the advantage of making you stand one because of their uniqueness and that is yet another factor that most women enjoy very much. You also have the possibility of starting a fashion trend in your office, neighborhood, amongst your friends and why not, in your town with a unique, fashionable handbag.

The Disadvantages of Unique Handbags

The main disadvantages of unique handbags are the fact that they cannot be found with ease and/or when you do something one it may not be what you like or may not be matching your personality.
Unique handbags are usually created by designers and therefore are very expensive, that is a disadvantage and an advantage at the same time as expensive designer handbags usually promise exceptional quality and durability, which will ensure a long wear and thus, it will save you money in the long run.

Another disadvantage about unique handbags is that sometimes they are too unique and therefore they may not match your other outfits and your activities and therefore you may love its look but you may not be able to use it as often as you would like.

Where to Shop For Unique Handbags

Designers are the best place to shop for unique handbags however, there are a variety of stores found on online that will custom make handbags, which will make them as unique as you want, in the shape, size, material and color of choice.

You can even create your own unique handbag at home if you are creative and you have the patience by crocheting and/or knitting one, which is always in fashion. Adding pictures to your existing handbag of your children or pets can add a unique touch to your existing handbag as well thus, making it unique.

The Question of Teenage Lingerie Is Tough

The word lingerie is usually taken in the same breath with sex and titillation. Hence, to say teenage lingerie would mean that the teenager is sexually active, which many parents would not be comfortable with to promote, even though at the back of their minds, they would expect it. Hence, this becomes as touchy as the use of the birth control pill.

Some very interesting questions arise… Should the parents recommend their daughters to take the pill when they become teenagers? Or would that mean that you have give them permission to have sex. Is it safety or a fa ade? Logically speaking, the mother should be the first one to explain to her daughter the role of the birds and bees at about ten years of age, because this is the age that puberty may hit and it could catch the child unaware.

Should You Help Your Teenage Daughter to Buy Some Teenage Lingerie?

This is completely up to you. However, you should keep in mind one thing. If you want to be in the life of your child, learn to be non-judgmental and very tolerant of the idiosyncrasies that come up during this period of time. When you help your daughter to choose teenage lingerie, you would help her to choose something that makes her feels beautiful. You will also be able o guide her in the correct use of a bra.

Ignoring the need of looking beautiful and attractive and sexy of your daughter, would simply alienate her from you. Because, if she is not preening herself in front of you, she will definitely do so in front of someone else! Guess what? It is better she does it in front of you. After all, teenage lingerie is just another way to look gorgeous! Teenage lingerie is nothing else not if it is used without a sexual partner.

You may take the help of all this preening that comes naturally to women to talk to your daughter about safety in sex. You may explain to her broadly, if you do not feel comfortable, but you should definitely leave the unmistakenable message that you are there in case she needs you, even in the most preposterous situations. Unless you do so, your daughter might get into the risk of being exposed to rapists, unwanted pregnancy, venereal diseases, and other dangers, which she thinks she is ready for, but she is not.

If you fail to be your daughter s best friend more than a mother, you have failed somewhere in your communication process. Work on it, and bring it back to life. This relationship is worth the effort.